KESWICK AT PORTSTEWART – FRIDAY 10 JULY 2026 – CLIVE BOWSHER
BEING UNITED TO JESUS
This evening we're going to think together about being united to Jesus.
As a much younger married couple, I remember Kerstin and I going to listen to a speaker in the Corn Exchange in Cambridge and this speaker was quite well known and he was coming to talk about idols and idolatry and you're thinking great date night, right? And I remember it was packed and you know we were queuing for quite a time to get in. It was quite difficult to find a seat and you know we sat down we waited for the speaker to come on. And as I was sitting there I just felt a bit sort of fidgety you know and a little bit irritated if I'm honest. And you know, I kept thinking to myself that I felt a little s underwhelmed. And you know, we sat and we listened and then we filed out quite slowly. By the time we got to the place we were going for coffee I was in quite a bad mood. And I remember sort of trying to unpick the arguments, and you know, find the gaps maybe in in what was being said. And it's a little bit I don't know if it's exactly amusing looking back but the reason for this I think was that you know at the time I was just kind of too heavily invested in the particular career that I was doing and you know our life projects, those things that we are partially leaning on to prop us up and very often they're glory projects. They don't like to die, you know, because we're kind of relying on them. Hence my fidgeting, hence my rather bad mood. Hence every kind of objection that I could find to avoid concluding the rather obvious thing that this this guy had a point. We I think invest in you know these things that we go after for a sense of glory because we are actually wired each one of us for a kind of glory. We want something that really tastes. If you dig a little bit deeper into what's going on when we, you know, try to build up our own glory, you know, it might be all sorts of different things. It could be career, it could be sort of respectability, could be reputation that they're always things I think that are seeking kind of glory and good opinion from other people, rather than from the only one who can give it. But when you dig deeper, it's very often, isn't it, that we want to know that we are valued. Dig still deeper, you know, even deeper. And it's actually that we're longing to know we're loved. And that longing for what really tastes, that longing for glory can have us going in all sorts of wonky directions if we go looking for it in the wrong place. And if we try to establish it for ourselves, you know, my reputation, my respectability, my CV, whatever that might look like, you know, degrees, sporting accolades. Sometimes it can just be like what the neighbours think, right? But there is a glory that we are wired for. And here's the thing, you don't have to create this glory for yourselves. It's something that is given to us. It's something that we receive because glory isn't about comparison. It's not about being better. Glory is about belonging. Glory is about being valued enough, about being important enough to be brought in by the only one whose view matters really fundamentally, right? There's a glory that you are wired for. And this evening, there's a sort of open armed invitation from God himself to step into that if you've never done that for the first time or maybe to step deeper into that.
We're going to begin by having a look at a little episode in John 8 and then we're going to go back to the farewell discourse and have a look at a chunk of John 17.
John 8 verse 31
Jesus is talking to a group of people who have believed what he's saying intellectually. They believe in their heads. He's talking to these people who are descended from Abraham and he says to them, verse 31, "If you abide in my word," which is very close, isn't it, to saying, "If you abide in me, you are truly my disciples and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." But immediately these people are kind of indignant that Jesus might be suggesting that there's a kind of freedom that they haven't yet known, a truth that they haven't yet appreciated, and a freedom that they haven't yet stepped into. And so immediately their kind of their own glory project kicks in a little bit. And you can see for them what that is. It seems to be linked to their ethnic descent from Abraham because they say straight away to him, “you know, we're we are offspring of Abraham. We've never been enslaved to anyone.” And you go Exile, Babylonians. If you're thinking historically, you go, "What about the Roman occupation at the moment?” Sometimes we're pretty blind to ourselves, aren't we? But they're so wrapped up in in their identity having been descended from Abraham that their ears are kind of closed to what Jesus wants to say to them. “You know, how is it, Jesus, that you can say to us that there's a way for us to become free? We don't have a problem of being bound by anything.” They're indignant. And so Jesus says to them, "Truly, truly I say to you, everyone who sins is a slave to sin.” Jesus says the great robber of freedom is sin. You know, sin promises freedom and then you know once we take the bait we discover the hook and if we carry on that way, if that's what we're living in we discover that the Father is far away. The very glory that we're longing for, the very freedom that we're longing for is far far away. And so Jesus tells them a short powerful story here. It’s kind of like a little parable. He says, "Okay, there's a house and in this house there is a slave and a Son. And the slave is under obligation to the master, right? It's contractual. It's economic." And the thing is Jesus says the slave does not belong to the house forever. He doesn't remain forever. It's insecure between the master and the slave. It's not permanent. It's not great. He doesn't belong. The slave verse 35 does not remain in the house forever. The Son remains forever. Jesus the Son remains in the Father's house forever. Right? We know that, don't we? The Son, you know, in the Father, the Father in the Son, the Son belongs. The Son relates to the master of everything as Father. But then verse 36 blows you away. Because Jesus says, "This Sonship that I have, this place that I have in the Father's house, I share with you." In verse 35, you wonder which Son he's talking about, don't you? It's not immediately obvious who he's talking about. He's certainly talking about himself, but the jaw-dropping thing is that he's also talking about you and me who have trusted in him. And so he says, "If you've trusted in me and so I've set you free, I've given you the same sort of freedom in the Father's house that I myself enjoy." When the Son sets you free, you are free indeed. You know, when the Spirit unites you to Christ through faith, he brings you into the Father's house to share the Sonship of Jesus, to stand where Jesus stands, to have the same access to the Father that Jesus enjoys, to know the very same freedom. Jesus is the one who has dwelt in the Father's house since before the foundation of the world. He's the Son who remains forever. And because we're united to him, he brings us into the very same place. If you're a Christian this evening, can I ask you, do you know deep down that sort of belonging to the Father? You know, Jesus isn't just telling a sort of pretty parable here. He's saying for real, it is true for you this evening that through faith in me, Jesus, you have the very same access to the Father that I enjoy. I've brought you right into the most holy place. That takes some drinking in, doesn't it? You know where you're seated right now. You are in the Father's presence, that immediately you are held in the Father's embrace that securely. You can never lose it. When the Son brings you in to his own Father's house in this way you are free indeed. You have absolutely everything. When the Son sets you free, you are free indeed.
I grew up in a non-Christian family and I came to know about Jesus in my late teens and I remember when I first encountered the gospel, it felt to me like the need to escape judgment. I knew that I needed to repent. I was glad of a way of escape, but it didn't feel like freedom to me. I had no idea how God felt towards me. I had no idea what Christ wanted to share with me. And so, the Christian life felt like a long list of dos and don'ts. Do you know that feeling? It's just me. You know, it felt rather contractual, rather like that slave in the house in Jesus' little parable there. It felt more like obligation than delight. I wonder if the Christian life has felt like that to some of us in some seasons. And I remember a fortnight as a student when I tried, you know, like seriously tried to be like Jesus in every single thing that I did. I came from this kind of background where you set goals and you strive to achieve them. I read all the way through the New Testament a few times. I hadn't done that before. And I'm thinking, okay, so you know, God must be interested primarily in what we do. It’s about behaviour. It's about dos and don'ts. And so I'm going to see if I can make the grade. And so for a whole fortnight originally, you might be able to guess how far I got. But you know, I was going to try to really do this, to really be like Jesus. It sounds quite naive as I stand here and say it to you all, but this was the goal. And I was absolutely horrified. I had no idea what my heart was really like, you know, and so I think I got about I don't know, I probably got an hour in or half a day in. And the problem was I hadn't understood that actually what God really wants with each one of us is fellowship and relationship. It's first and foremost about behaviour. He doesn't want me to work my way up to him. It was a bit like my Kenyan friend. You know, it seemed to me at that time like God was up there, I was down here. He was separate from me and to be reckoned with. And I couldn't see his smile. And there was little power to change. God wants to share his heart with you, not a rule book. He wants to share his very house with you and he's invited you in his Son. What I was doing during that fortnight was looking to God purely as master and I was going to do exactly what he said and I just did not know his love. I hadn't heard that invitation to freedom. God is saying this evening that his intention, is for you and I to live and dwell with him in his house in the way that Jesus does. That is the freedom that Jesus is talking about in John 8 here. And if you've never said yes to that for the first time, can I encourage you to do that this evening? He's not throwing a rule book at you. He's not interested in a sort of outward behaviour and being shiny on the outside. He's not interested in you trying to build up your own sort of capital with him and establish some kind of reputation. He's interested in you saying yes to this invitation to come into his house and do life with him in his Son in the power of his Spirit. It's life in his house, not just for what is to come, but in the here and now as well. And you know, pretty much the only thing we need to do to accept that is to lay down our own glory projects and to receive from him. Doesn't that sound good? If you've accepted that invitation, you already belong in the Father's house. You're in his presence each and every day in Christ. You are in his full affection. So the first heading is - you get to share in the Son's glory.
You might be going, "Whoa, that sounds perhaps a little bit radical. What exactly do we mean by that?" Come with me to John 17, and I'm going to read verses 1 to 10 to us. This, of course, immediately follows everything that we've been looking at in the farewell discourse, John 13 through to-16.
There's a lot of talk about God's glory in those verses, isn't there? God's house, of course, is full of his glory. It's not a harsh sort of unapproachable glory, the glory of God. It's the glory that our hearts are actually wired for. It's the glory that our hearts long to taste. God's glory is his abundant outgoing love. God's glory is his overflowing fullness, his selfgivingness. It's the glory that the Father and the Son share. And did you notice in verses 9 and 10 here Jesus says something really interesting. He says “I'm not sorry I'm praying for them. I'm not praying for the world but for those whom you've given me for they're yours. All mine are yours and yours are mine and then the key bit. Jesus says “I Jesus am glorified in them.” And just to apply it, “I Jesus am glorified in you sitting there.” You know, as the Father is glorified in the Son and particularly so at the cross and you see that all the way through those verses we just read. As the Father is glorified in the Son so the Son is glorified in you and me, his people. Well, there's only one way that can work, isn't there? And it's exactly what Jesus says in verse 22, if we can just skip ahead. He says to the Father, "Father, the glory that you have given me." And that is the glory that the Father and the Son have shared since before the foundation of the world. “Father, the glory that you have given me, Jesus, I have given to them.” Now, that should have you kind of, you know, stepping back. What's Jesus saying here? Is he really saying that that the glory that the Father pours out on the Son, all the fullness, all the love, so that is poured out by the Son into his people? That is exactly what he's saying and you can see here that is what makes us fruitful in mission. That is what enables us to love one another with the love of Christ. That is what enables us to be one so that the world will see because it's seeing the glory of Christ that the Father sent the Son. The Son shares his life with you because you're united to him. The Son shares his righteousness with you because you're united to him. The Son's Father is your Father. The Son's house, the Father's house is your house. And you get to share in receiving his glory, too. Paul says that, doesn't he? You know, just as we've been justified, we're glorified. We're not saying that, we're an originator of glory in the way that God is. God's glory is his outgoing fullness. But we're recipients of it. As the Father has glorified the Son, so the Son glorifies you and me. That means that God deeply values each and every one of us, doesn't it? And Jesus is passionate about this. It's why he's praying about it here. It's why he's talking to the Father about it. Verse 24 of chapter 17, he says, "Father, I desire that they also whom you've given me." He's talking about believers throughout here, I think. Not this split original disciples and later believers, although there's something of that going on as well. I think that all he's saying here in verse 17 applies to all of us who have put our trust in him. He says, "Father, I desire that they also whom you've given me may be with me where I am to see my glory, to share in my glory that you've given me because you love me before the foundation of the world." We've already been brought into the house. We've already been brought into this glory and the consummation is coming for sure. Already you have a full place in the Father's house. You get to enjoy life there in the Son and by the Spirit already. And this is what I want you to really get this evening. Already God's glory rests on you. He's valuing you, you know. He says, "You're the apple of my eye. You're my beloved.
I remember a particularly sort of draining period in pastoral ministry a few years ago and I woke early one day praying. I was so under pressure. I was praying. I was sort you know how you curl up in bed and I had this sense of sheltering in God and you know the pressures were so extreme at the time. The workload was so extreme. Some of the difficulties that we were working through were extreme. I said “Lord you need to do something.” And about an hour later, a good friend, an elderly lady in the church where I was the pastor, rang up and said that she'd been praying for me. And you know, she explained when she'd been praying. And actually, it was pretty much exactly the time that I had called out to God. And she said, "Clive, I pictured you sheltered in and immersed in the glory of God." And as she said that to me, I thought, "Ooh, you know, that's a little bit unusual." I thought, I wonder how scriptural that is. I think I better go and test that, you know. And so, you know, eventually came to John 17. Jesus says to you that the glory that the Father has given him, that rests upon you. And you know, God's house is full of his glory, isn't it? We see that, you know, in the Old Testament as his glory fills the temple. And somehow I had always thought, well, you know, that's not really the kind of place that that I can step right into. But the point is that in Christ that is exactly where we are right able to sit in the most holy place. Able to sit immersed in, showered by the glory of God without fear. Absolute, to the contrary with sheer delight, able to in a sense come into the family living room led there by the Son. In him we are able to drink in the love of the Father and stand in glory. That means you are completely welcome, doesn't it? Means you belong fully. Means you could not be more accepted. This is lifegiving glory. This is the love of the Father for the Son.
And that brings us to our third heading which is you stand not only in the glory of the Father and the Son. It's not a glory but it's a glory we get to bathe in. We get to stand in that glory and to stand in the father's full affection. One commentator says this, "God wants for us what? God wants us to know the full dignity and honour of sonship. But my heart keeps whispering that I should settle for being a hired servant." You know that slave in the John 8 parable. Do I truly want to live as one so totally forgiven and accepted that a new freedom opens up? You need to be in this place with the Father, that Jesus is describing. This place of complete freedom is also deeply vulnerable, isn't it? This commentator says, you know, it requires a willingness to let God be God and to fully trust his promise and goodness. It requires a willingness to let God do the restoring and the reshaping. He goes on to say, "Do I want to radically break from my way and surrender myself absolutely to the love of God?" The glory that your heart longs for is a glory that you don't have to strive for. It's a glory that you receive. It is a value. It's a value that you receive from the Father having been welcomed into his house. The Father's glory, his delight, his value of you rests upon you. He's made you his child. He's brought you in. And this is another key way to think about being united to Christ. He's brought you in to share the sonship of Jesus, to stand where Jesus stands. And I believe that God this evening wants to counter every voice that may have spoken against your dignity as a human being and as a person, to counter every voice that may have spoken against your future and against your potential. Perhaps even some religious voices. The Father has invited you into the fullness of his house. Christ has invited you to come in and share his sonship fully, his eternality of life, his righteousness and his very fellowship with the father. The glory that your heart longs for is Christ in you and you in him glory. It's in one another glory.
And so you get this this logic through these verses, verses
20 and 21, us in Christ, us in God. Verse 22, the Father's glory and Christ's
glory in us. Verse 23, why is that? Why? Why is God's glory in us? It's because
Christ is in us. And get this, verse 23, we are loved in just the way that the Father
loves the Son. You stand in Christ in the Father's full affection. His word to
you is that you are the apple of his eye. That you have the full dignity of sons
and daughters of God. That just as Christ is his beloved, so are you. You
belong in the Father's house, you share in the Son's glory. You stand in the
Father's full affection.



