COLERAINE EVANGELICAL CHURCH
SUNDAY 24 MAY 2026 – MR PHILIP GRAHAM
GENESIS 40 - FORGOTTEN BUT NOT FORSAKEN
We all know the story of Joseph, of how he grew up at his
father's house, how he had dreams as a boy, how his brothers had tried to kill
him, but then they sold him into slavery. He had been wronged. He had been sold
as a slave. Then he went to Potiphar’s house, and there he was accused wrongly.
And then he was thrown into prison. And here we find Joseph in prison. Joseph's
been mistreated, misrepresented, misunderstood and now He
is imprisoned. And in the midst of it all, I think you'll agree with me
that Joseph remained patient. He remained calm. And he kept his testimony
intact. You see, Joseph never seen himself as a victim, but as a victor waiting
for his liberty. A brief glimpse of Joseph's life here reveals the trials he
was called to endure. As I say, his brothers rejected him. He became a slave in
a foreign land. Think about it. He had been sold into a foreign land, didn't
even know the language, had been thrown out and expected to perform a job. Then
he was falsely accused. If it wasn't bad enough that he was a slave, he was
accused wrongly. Now he is in prison. And through it all, he refused to be a
victim. Joseph knew what the writer of Genesis records for us in chapter 39 and
verse number 21 “But the Lord was with Joseph.” Joseph knew the Lord was with him.
I wonder this morning, do you know that the Lord is with you? Joseph was able
to claim this promise. Joseph knew in his heart that the Lord was with him. And
that truth alone made this prison spell a bit more bearable for Joseph. As we
take a look at this man, Joseph, I want you to remember this one truth this
morning - that the Lord was with him. The Lord was with him. If you're saved
this morning, you can claim that promise every single day. The Lord is with me.
I want you to join Joseph in prison today. His experiences there have many
lessons for us this morning. This passage finds Joseph shut up, shut
off, and shut down, but still, he serves the Lord. Still, he is
faithful. And sometimes the path of life leads us into prison circumstances. We
all face hardships and trials, and we too can feel shut in. We can feel shut
down. And sometimes in that time we feel forgotten. We feel neglected. And many
times, we are forgotten. And you'll see as we go on here with all the best
intentions here, Joseph was still forgotten. And maybe that's where you feel
this morning. You feel in your Christian walk that I am forgotten. But even
though man can let us down, man may forget us in the prisons of our life, the
Lord never forgets.
Firstly, I want you to look this morning at Joseph and his prison duties. Look at verses 1 to 4. “The captain of the guard charged Joseph with them, and he served them and they continued the season.” While Joseph waits in the prison, he receives some company. Two men are thrown into prison with Joseph. They're former highly placed servants of Pharaoh - Pharaoh's butler and his baker. The butler was Pharaoh's cup bearer. It says here when anything was to eat or drink, this man would have been in charge of that and he would have brought the drink or the food before Pharaoh and the cup bearer would taste it first just so if anybody was trying to poison the Pharaoh the cup bearer would take the hit. So this was a highly trusted individual. And the baker was the same. He was in charge of the king's food. He was in charge of making sure that everything was right and perfect for the king. So these two men would have held very high positions in the king's court. They would have been in charge of his welfare, of his food, of looking after the king. But for some reason, there was a problem with Pharaoh's food. And these two men end up in trouble. They're cast into prison. And when these men get to prison, they received preferential treatment. They weren't thrown into the darkest part of the dungeon. That just shows you how important these men were. These men, if you like, were treated like celebrities of their day. And when they were put into prison, they were given Joseph. And Joseph's job was to look after them and to make sure they were all okay. And of course, the prison guard picked Joseph. Why did he pick Joseph? Because he knew there was something different about Joseph. He knew that Joseph would give these men the best treatment because Joseph was different than all the rest of the prisoners that were there. He was handpicked by his seniors. And on the on the surface, this seemed to be just another assignment given to Joseph. This was just another job that Joseph would have to do. But in reality here, we see God's providence. We see God starting to move. We see God's sovereignty working in Joseph life once again. God had just brought Joseph face to face with the man God would later use to secure his release from prison. We should never discount this morning those seemingly small twists, those turns, those insignificant encounters. Some people would say, "Oh, that was just a chance meeting." Some people would say, "Oh, that was just another job for Joseph." But what no one could see was how God was moving, how God was working behind the scenes, bringing everything together for Joseph's greater good. And the same is true in our lives. Never discount those small moves. Never discount those chance encounters. Those chance encounters that may turn out to be the meeting of a lifetime. You know what we sometimes would say? Oh, that was just an accident. That was just a coincidence. It is really God working in our lives in a great way. Psalm 37:23 says, "The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord." God orders those minute details. Don't take them for granted. I don't know where you're at this morning, but you are feeling your prison condition at the minute, but God's working things in the background. God is bringing things into place. Maybe not in your time, but He is bringing things into place in his time to work all things for his glory. And What is Joseph doing in that time? He is just doing something very simple. He has been faithful. Joseph has been faithful in his duties. He has been called. He is stuck in prison. He has been given a job. He could have said, "I am not doing that.” No, Joseph was faithful. You see, I believe Joseph wanted others to see that in the middle of his drama, in the middle of his circumstances, that Joseph was worshiping and following a person far greater than the than the prison guard. Joseph was following God. Joseph was worshiping God. When we get to circumstances like that, it is so easy for us to throw up our arms and say, “you know what, I am giving up. I've had enough.” But Joseph's prison duties were to look after these men. We too need to be faithful to God, to trust him, to just sit back and wait for God to move.
Secondly, I want you to look at prison demeanours. Verses six and seven. As Joseph went about his duties, he saw these two men. In verse number six, “and Joseph came in onto them in the morning and looked upon them. Behold, they were sad.” Do you ever wonder why that verse is there for? “Behold, they were sad.” Who cares? They're in prison. They're sad. You can understand their sadness. They didn't want to be there. They were prestigious men. I am sure they were well paid. They were well looked after. And in verse six, it records, "Behold, they were sad.” After all, they have been removed from their position, but they are only going to be there for a short time. But why? Why are they sad? They'll be getting out soon. But there's Joseph on the other hand is there to stay. He doesn't know when He is going to get out. He hasn't done anything wrong, but He is stuck there. He is a stranger in a foreign land in prison. He is no chance of getting out. But is Joseph sad? No. Joseph is concerned about their welfare. He reaches out to help them through their prison experience. How easy it would have been to have put the focus back on himself. We would have been worried about ourselves and how we are going to get out of our prison. But not Joseph. Joseph's demeanour was completely different. Joseph wanted to see these men. He wanted to check in on them. He wanted to make sure they were okay. You see, life isn't fair sometimes. But Joseph didn't look at himself. He looked at these men and he wanted to sort them out. He wanted to help them. And what a lesson that is for us this morning. When we come across people who are sad, what do we do? Do we stay away from them or do we go over to them and say, "Brother, sister, is everything all right? You look sad this morning. " You know, Joseph didn't look at it himself, but he looked at others and how we must do that as well. These men did not know the Lord Jehovah. The Egyptians would have their own religions. But yet, Joseph had concern for these unsaved men. He was concerned for these people who were sad. Joseph was going to be able to draw alongside them. These men who were unsaved, they were unlearned. They had their own religion. They followed their own idols. But Joseph was able to draw alongside them and say, "What is wrong?" and through his experience Joseph was able to bring the Lord into the situation. We must use our circumstances and our situations to draw alongside those people in our own neighbourhoods, in our own streets, in our own town. We are so disconnected, aren't we, from our neighbours? We are so disconnected from those around us. We are so connected with our phones and everything else and technology. But do we know our neighbours? Do we know those around us in this estate? Do they know us? Do they say “oh there's your man. He is going to church again.” “There's your woman and she is heading to the prayer meeting again.” Do they watch us? Or do we just sort of keep ourselves to ourselves? Here was Joseph. Now, he had no choice in the matter. He was in prison with them. But in our walk in life, we'll come across these people all the time. There are people out there and they are sad. And the reason they are sad is because they are searching. And in their search, they are looking at you and they are reading you. And these prison guards and prisoners would have been looking at Joseph and as they studied Joseph and the way he conducted himself, they would have realized there's something different about that man and why He is in prison. Maybe he has told them the story about what happened to him in Potiphar's house. Maybe they are probably thinking to themselves “this is terrible, this man is in here and he didn't do anything wrong but look at him, look at the way he conducts himself. They trusted Joseph. This wasn't some chance meeting that these men come in and said, "Here, I've had a dream here. Joseph, can you tell us what this means?" These men would have been watching Joseph. These men would have been studying Joseph and they'd have realized that there's something different about Joseph. I wonder this morning, is there something different about us? I wonder as people watch us what do they see? Joseph didn't call for a pity party. He did not lash out. Joseph was trusting in God. People were able to distinguish by Joseph's demeanour, the Lord was with him. I wonder this morning as people look at us do they say “the Lord is with that person. I can trust that person to talk to them because the Lord's with them and there's something different about them.” These men, they were sad. And Joseph drew alongside them. As Joseph drew alongside them, I am sure he was able to share with them who his God was. The God Jehovah, Yahweh, the covenant keeping God, I am sure Joseph was able to explain to them, “you know what? I don't know why I am here, but I trust God.” When we get to those seasons in life when we feel trapped in that what does God want us to do? Philippians 2 verse 4 “Let not every man look in his own things, but every man also in the things of others.” We are to look out for other people. And Joseph was looking out even in the middle of his prison experience. He was looking out for other people. We are called to bear one another's burdens. It is not easy because everybody likes to focus on their own issues, but it is biblical to care for one another. It is biblical to look out for those around us. You see, the fact is that when we get our eyes off our pains and our prison and get on to the needs and the problems of others, that will take your mind, take your heart off your own circumstance. Joseph may be in a prison and his dreams may seem to have been shattered. Remember, he had all his own dreams years ago. I am sure many a night he would have thought about them. They seem shattered and it may seem that he is here to stay, but Joseph still has joy. I wonder do you have joy this morning? Most people have no problem being joyous when they've no burden. Most folks can praise the Lord and they can laugh and they can smile when they're on the mountain top, but takes someone filled with genuine faith to praise the Lord. To be happy when the bottom falls out of life. Why is Joseph happy? Because He is serving the Lord where He is at. And the Lord is blessing him. Anybody can praise the Lord when they are filled with joy. When everything is going their way, When health is in their favour and they have no problems, but how hard it is, how difficult it is to praise the Lord when working through a challenge, that circumstance that you feel is going to be the end of you. When your heart is broken, most of us will be like the butler and the baker. We will. And we wear that sad face, that gloomy countenance. Can I encourage you to be have the demeanour of Joseph, that positive attitude? Remember that the Lord is with you. The Lord is in control.
Look at the prison dreams here in this chapter this morning. As Joseph checks in on these men, he asked them, "What is wrong?" One says, "Well, we dreamed a dream." I wonder what Joseph's thought was at that very moment. Did Joseph remember the dreams he had? He had dreamt about the sheaves, his brothers, and his father. He had dreamt about the sun and the moon bowing down to him. Joseph encourages him to tell him his dream. Deep down I believe Joseph knew that God would help him interpret those dreams. Joseph knew that it was only God who can give the interpretation. And by this example, Joseph was going to show them once again that the Lord was with him. That the Lord Jehovah was in control. Joseph could have got angry. He could have said, "You know what, Lord, you give me a dream and it never came true. Lord, you promised me this and look where I am at now.” He could have got bitter. That wouldn't have done Joseph any good. Joseph asked these men and he engages with them. He wants to know. He is concerned about their welfare. He is concerned the condition they're in in prison. She said, "Tell me about your dream." What a lesson for us today, for us when it seems like God has forgotten us. There will be times when it seems that those dreams we have had seem as if they have been derailed. What you do in those trying difficult seasons has a great deal to do with the Lord and how you view the Lord. Joseph never took his eyes off the Lord. Even in those prison experiences, Joseph never took his eyes off the Lord. Our duty in all the prisons of life is to actively seek ways to glorify God. Joseph was looking for the next thing to glorify God. 1 Corinthians 10:31 says, "Do all to the glory of God." That was Joseph's attitude here in prison. What is your job this morning? So that as others watching you going down the street will say "That's a child of God." These men knew that Joseph was different. They would have known that the Lord was with him. And the reason we do everything to the glory of God is because God is good. God is faithful. God is perfect. He is just. And you might think that your circumstances are not good but our God hasn't changed. He is still good. He is still faithful. And we need to learn to glorify him when the sun is shining. And we need to glorify him when the rain is falling. And we need to look at ways to point others to him. Even though our hearts are breaking, we still should glorify God. Look at ways to bring glory to his name. If God is the God of the mountain, He is also the God of the valley. We must get that concept into our head. God is in control whether you feel like it or not. Our feelings are terrible. They fool us. They trick us into believing all is OK when they are not. Joseph had realized that God was in control through this whole thing. Do you know God personally? Do you know him as a God who loves you? If you don't know him this morning, can I encourage you to get to know him? God is in control of your life. You say, "But I haven't had a good life." God sent his son to save you from your sin. If you're still in your sin this morning, you are lost. And God in his mercy and in his goodness gave us a way where we could be right with him.
Look at the prison disappointments that Joseph faced. The dreams of the butler and the baker were fulfilled just as Joseph had said. The butler was restored to his office. The baker was executed by Pharaoh. Joseph had asked the butler to remember him - verse number 14 ”but think on me when it shall be well with thee.” Joseph asked the cup bearer to remember him whenever he went into Pharaoh.” In verse number 23 we read "Yet did not the chief butler remember Joseph, but forgot him. He forgot all about him." How often it is that you help somebody out and whenever they get on the road again and they are back to where they were that they forget all about you? Here's Joseph sitting in prison. I wonder did Joseph after the butler and the baker left did Joseph go and pack his bags and say, "Right, this man will tell Pharaoh and I'll be out of here in no time." I am sure every time that prison door opened, maybe Joseph thought, "Maybe now's my time. Maybe he has told Pharaoh about me and they're coming to set me free." But those weeks turned into months and those months turned into two long years. And all the while, Joseph is still in that prison experience. He is disappointed, but He is waiting. He is waiting on God. He is trusting in God. It is God saying, "It is not yet. It is not your time yet." And this prison disappointment served to teach Joseph two valuable lessons as he waited. See, Joseph, you can't fault him for it. He tried to take matters into his own hand. He says, "Well, I'll find a way out of here. Would you tell Pharaoh about me?" But God said, "No, it is not your time yet." We need to realize this morning that our help doesn't come from man. Our help comes from the Lord. Psalm 121 reminds us to lift up our eyes because our help comes from the Lord. Joseph learned once again that God’s unseen hand moves on God's time scale, not on our time scale. And how sometimes we can get frustrated. Sometimes we want to go a bit quicker. God's timing is perfect every single time. Our God is never late. As we go through the Old Testament, we see time and time again how God's timing is always perfect. We think about Elijah. When did God feed Elijah? When Elijah needed it. Morning and evening, he brought the ravens down to feed him. When did he rescue the three Hebrew boys, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego? They had to go into the fire, but they didn't experience the heat. God rescued them just right on time. When did God rescue Daniel from the lion's den? God did it in his time. God had a bigger plan. God has a bigger plan for our lives. No matter the circumstance, no matter the present experience, no matter that disappointment that you're experiencing right here, right now, God has a bigger plan. And how often we try to reach out, and we try to fix it ourselves and we just make a mess of it, don't we? But God's saying, "trust me." Don't be discouraged in those disappointments or those trials. We can either get discouraged and look for a place to quit or we can be like Joseph and be faithful. Trust in God this morning. Even though you may feel forgotten, even though you may feel forsaken, trust in the Lord. As we conclude this morning, this is a very bad place to leave Joseph, isn't it? He is still in prison. He hasn't got out. He has done the right thing every time. Every time he had the chance to, Joseph done what was right and honourable. And he still suffers for righteousness sake. And that may be you this morning. Joseph still stood falsely accused, wrongly imprisoned, and He is still forgotten. Joseph cannot see it here yet, but the wheels of providence are in place. They're in motion. Things are starting to move, and God is slowly but surely lining everything up for God's glory, not for Joseph's glory. The same thing is true in our lives. Some of you may be looking at disappointments and discouragements and you do not know how to handle them. And the best thing you can do this morning is to bring them to the Lord. Pour out your heart to him and learn to leave them in his capable hand. Can I remind you just as we close this morning, the Lord is with you. No matter that prison experience, whether you are disappointed, whether you think your dreams are shattered, whether your demeanour is low, the Lord is in it. Will you trust him? Will you let him take control? Will you let him lead?





